A client asked me, “Is there a way to make heartache go away?”

I told her no.

You cannot erase a love that still lives in the body. You can forgive. Through forgiveness, the feeling can stop running the whole system.

That conversation became the video She Asked If Heartache Can Go Away | Missing Father Figure, published September 2, 2026.

The same morning, Angel wrote this on Google about Go Pain to Power:

Since working with Shankar I’ve seen the problems I’ve brought up to him dissipate. I don’t know how he does it truly but, he is a wonder. I’m fortunate that I found him at the time I did because I was almost out of options on what was going to work for me. I very much recommend him.

Can heartache go away?

She was still carrying love for a man who left. The relationship, as she described it, had not been a healthy one. The clinging was still there.

When we sat down for a session, two earlier gaps in her life were in the room with that heartache: an absent father, and a grandfather who had been important to her and then became unsafe.

When a girl never gets reliable fatherly love, the nervous system often keeps looking for it. Unhealthy relationships can feel familiar. An old love can be hard to put down even when it was never a worthy love to begin with.

The useful question is not how to delete the feeling. It is what can fill the gap.

A healthier circle of people. Faith, if she has one. A coach or counselor. Safe, non-sexual human contact. The session work we do with the nervous system. Those are options. They can be combined.

What Angel reported

Angel did not write that the heartache was gone. She wrote that the problems she had brought to the work had begun to dissipate, and that she had been almost out of options.

That is her report, in her words, the same day the video went public. Other people will have different results.

Watch the conversation

The long-form video is the session story in her words and mine:

She Asked If Heartache Can Go Away | Missing Father Figure

If this is the question you have been carrying, start with how the nervous system reset approach works, what to expect from a session, or request a private session.